When I die, please don’t remember me.

Love
2 min readJun 6, 2024

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The silence after the final exhale holds no weight for me. Don’t drape memories over my headstone like a shroud. Let the wind whisper through the grass where I lie, uninterrupted by elegies.

My life wasn’t a grand opera, no sweeping crescendos or tragic finales. It was a collection of quiet moments, a melody hummed under one’s breath. I walked a path unseen by many, content with the company of solitude.

There’s a beauty in fading, in becoming one with the earth that cradled my first steps. The oak I climbed as a child can mourn the loss of its shade, the birdsong can hush in a momentary lapse. But life, like a river, will carve a new course around the absence.

Don’t etch my name in granite, a cold permanence in a world of constant flux. Let my legacy be the kindness I offered, unseen and unexpected. Perhaps a ripple in a stranger’s day, a smile I left lingering in the air.

Maybe it’s the way I nurtured a wilting plant back to life, or the time I held the door for someone struggling with groceries, a silent understanding passing between us. These are the threads I wove into the fabric of existence, small acts that might never be recognized, yet hold a power of their own.

Those who truly knew me, they’ll carry a piece of me within them. A shared joke whispered under a starlit sky, a favorite book passed down with a worn inscription, a turn of phrase that brings a smile to their lips — these are the whispers that echo in the heart. Let them live on in laughter and quiet contemplation, a testament to the life I lived, not the death I met.

The world spins on, indifferent to the passing of a single star. And that’s alright. My purpose wasn’t to leave a mark on the cosmos, but to dance for a brief moment in its light.

I didn’t crave the spotlight, the validation of others. The joy was in the experience itself, the symphony of a raindrop on a windowpane, the warmth of the sun on my skin, the quiet companionship of a book.

Let the final curtain fall without applause, for the greatest performance happens unseen, within the tapestry of my existence itself. I am a note in a universal song, a fleeting brushstroke on the canvas of life. And in that quiet acceptance, there is a strange kind of peace.

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Love
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My mind is a constant conversation, but my voice is rarely heard. Here, you'll find the whispers I keep to myself.

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